You’ve been given a do-over in life and it’s time to make the most of it.
Making lemonade out of lemons is what I do best. I have some great recipes for some really good lemonade too!
Sorry, no alcohol involved, just pure organic stuff. The kind that will make your face pucker, your mouth dry, and grow hair on your chest!
Really?
No. But I have some awesome strategies that I know will pull you through and get you to the other side.
It takes awhile to detox from a divorce, but when you can step back far enough to see through the forest, what you will find
will be the most beautiful garden awaiting you. It is my job to guide you through that forest on Heartbreak Ridge and get you out ALIVE!
Don’t worry, I’ve been trained in this sort of combat. I’ve been parachute dropped right in the thick of it and made it out alive—complete with the mud face, wide eyeballs, and twig hat. A bit shell-shocked, but alive and better for it.
So will you.
Divorce colors your world and can make even the simplest decisions difficult. I know, been there done that, wrote the book!
What your therapist doesn’t tell you, I will. This is a down-to-earth skill building program. How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than Just Heartache is sure to enrich your post-divorce/post-breakup life. This program is like getting a personal coach on call 24-7. Just when you need sound advice the most, I will be there with you in the trenches. No more trying to squeeze a therapy session in after work when you have a million and one things to do.
“65% of all second marriages end in divorce.” Why? Because we’re an all volunteer army and we didn’t learn enough the first time.
One of the real benefits of this program is its powerful message about the importance of learning the lessons of divorce so you won’t go down that path ever again.
Divorce has valuable lessons to teach you, if you are paying attention.
What’s that? You’re too poor to pay attention?
Certainly you’ve lost economies of scale. That happens in divorce. Our wealth drops 75%. Fear not. I’ve got some strategies for that too. Take it from a gal who had twenty bucks to last her two weeks with two kids and one in diapers. I took recycling to a whole new level. Betcha didn’t know you could recycle diapers. Not kidding! Hey, she’s twenty now. It didn’t kill her.
I know that your income has dropped and what used to be shared between two incomes is now supported by one. You’ve been in slash mode, like Edward Scissorhands cutting back everywhere you know how. So I get it. And that’s why I tried to make this program affordable. And to make the cost even more palatable, I’ve got some pretty cool bonuses in store for you.
Have you hit survival mode yet?
You will and when you do I’ll be there for you.
Who is “How To Get More Out of Your Breakup Than Just Heartache” for?
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed about your divorce and if you’ve been wishing that someone who knows about the stress of divorce could talk you through it and alleviate it, don’t wait another day. Do yourself one favor, click the “Sign Me Up” button at the bottom of this page and let me share what I know about how the lessons of divorce can enrich your life forever!
Discover the number one thing you will learn after your divorce as well as the unrealistic expectation about divorce with children—that marriage ends after a divorce. Ha! Good one.
Divorce is never as easy as you think it will be. That’s why we need to be taught about life after divorce.
Contrary to what you’ve been taught, you can change other people’s behavior. Discover a humorous and creative way to set clearly defined boundaries and how this technique can be beneficial in your relationships.
Get out of a funk.
Learn what you can do to change your way of thinking and jump start the rejuvenation process. Learn that there is never a mattress at the end of your comfort zone. Remember you are rebuilding YOU, Inc. a subsidiary of Got It Together Industries.
Even if you are allergic to the opposite sex right now, and the idea of another relationship has your stomach in knots, if you’ve been through a breakup or divorce this course is for you.
Inside this program there are six coaching tracks. Each one drills down into three to five more specific topics that deal with the fallout from a divorce/breakup. It’s like having 19 “advice” sessions at your fingertips—over six and a half hours of video instruction. By the end of this course you’ll have the tools and insight to help you heal faster so you can not only move forward, but get launched.
You are not alone!
Divorce is a journey. There are no shortcuts. And when you reach your destination you will know what so many others know, “We were just saving the best for last.”
Still wondering whether this program will benefit you?
Here are some things to consider:
And to make sure you really do feel supported and guided every step of the way, you’ll get lifetime access to How to Get More Our of Your Breakup than just Heartache. You’ll also get access to:
Private Members Only Facebook Group
(Value $997)
And while I support and believe therapist are necessary, I also know that for me some of the best advice I got came from the people I knew who had gone through a divorce or were in the midst of one themselves.
Those closest to it had very practical advice money couldn’t buy.
So in addition to getting essentially 19 therapy sessions, your membership in my “How To Get More Out Of Your Breakup Than Just Heartache” program, will get you into my exclusive Facebook group in the Live Well Divorce (LWD) Community.
I am a firm believer in having friends who share in your experience.
Inside the group you can talk with other members of this program. The group is very supportive of each other and when you are stuck and don’t know what to do, you can ask others in the group for advice.
This is a place where you can come to let it out and cry, but it is also a place where we lift each other up with laughter. Because I also feel that you can get through anything if you can find the humor in it.
Anyway, it’s all up to you and your comfort level, but definitely take advantage of the private Facebook group and make connections.
Jump on in and introduce yourself and let us know how long you’ve been split up.
Videos
This is a collection of Internet Videos I have put together for you. I’ve done the research and gathered helpful videos for you depending on the topic.
While there are tons of videos on YouTube, I thought you’d get the most out of these with the How To Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache Program.
Books
Here is a collection of books I think you will enjoy with the program. I have compiled this list over the years and am always adding to it. If you hear of a good one, let me know. I’ll include it!
Movies
Here is a collection of movies I think you will enjoy with the program. I have compiled this list over the years and am always adding to it. If you hear of a good one, let me know. I’ll include it!
Internet Sites
Here is a collection of Internet Sites on divorce recovery and building stronger relationships I think you will enjoy with the program. I have compiled this list over the years and am always adding to it. If you hear of a good one, let me know. I’ll include it!
How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache is the training I wish I had when I went through my divorce.
Having Trouble Getting Closure?
I can help you with that. I get excited about closure. Probably because I spent many years without it. If you are stuck, then I have a module for you. Now, I’m not promising to have you completely healed overnight, but I plan to give you some good tools and perspective that I think are really going to help you. But in order for this to work, you have to do the things I suggest. This program is not intended to be shelfware—you buy it, you listen to it, and then you never practice any of the steps. Know what I’m sayin’? You’ve got to practice until you get the perspective.
I remember being right where you are and if someone had sat me down and told me I know what you need, take this and call me in the morning, I would have. I was willing to try anything to make the hurt go away. So my friend, I may not have the perfect elixir, but I do know what you need.
Stay with me.
But first let me finish introducing these coaching sessions to you.
We’ll talk about closure and how to get it, we’ll talk about going full circle with your ex so that if you aren’t communicating now, you will know what to do to get communication back (this is vital if you have kids together), we’ll talk about getting your life back and by that I mean that inner peace you’ve lost. It is my goal after these sessions to get you closer to becoming rejuvenated, getting around the divorce circle with your ex, and achieving the ideal divorce.
I’ll show you how to protect you, your kids, your assets, your environment, and how to deal with a manipulative ex. Not only all that but I give you some practical steps for getting in shape, eating right, and getting better sleep.
In addition to working on your physical fitness, we work on your mental fitness to help you get perspective. You’ll be part of an exclusive Facebook group I’ve created for you for support and encouragement with others going through similar situations. We’ll talk about how to get rid of the stress from divorce and put more laughter back into your life, and ultimately we’ll talk about how to give and receive forgiveness.
To help with the purse strings I have devoted an entire module to Finances and how to get back on track. And lastly, I give some good practical suggestions on simplifying your divorce life.
How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache Program will give you the tools to get you up and over Heartbreak Ridge faster.
So what would it be worth to you if…
♥ You could get your inner peace back and become a more confident version of you?
♥ You had access to a support system of people going through the same things as you?
♥ You could start saving money instead of spending it?
♥ You could figure out how to deal with a manipulative ex?
♥ You could get a strategy for getting in shape both mentally and physically?
♥ You could learn to simplify your post divorce life?
I know that for some of you shelling out money for this course right now might be hard to do, especially when you’ve lost economies of scale and are down from two incomes to one. But here’s why you should relax. I did my best to make this class affordable and give it to you for less than the price of a therapy session. Keep reading.
Inside this program there are six modules. Each module drills down into four or five more specific topics that deal with the fallout from a divorce/breakup. It’s like having 19 “advice” sessions at your fingertips. And you can take these on the go too! And think about it, therapy’s not cheap, plus the gas and the hassle of scheduling appointments, then there’s missed work if you have to schedule around the kids. Not to mention if you miss an appointment with a therapist because you’ll likely get hit with a bill for the missed appointment.
How do I know if How to Get More Out Of Your Breakup than just Heartache is right for me?
If you can shoot an arrow through any of the issues below, then I’d say you’re a good candidate and ready to jump into How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache.
Is your middle name Alimony?
Do you want your kids more?
Do you lay awake at night wondering, “How do I get through this and when will it end?”
Do you ask yourself why and how more than ten times a day? “Why did this happen? How did this happen?”
Does your ex take advantage of you?
Do you need help changing your life?
If you can relate to any of the above…
Then I want to reward your commitment to growing and learning the lessons divorce can teach you about becoming a better, stronger, happier you with the most complete divorce recovery program available.
“So, come with me. We’re about to embark on an amazing journey together. And remember you can’t arrive before you make the trip!”
This is the healing module. This module will help get you closer to closure by giving you tools to get you there faster. You’ll learn strategies for regaining your inner peace.
This is the module that will help you get your ducks in a row before you go to court. Note: This is not a guide on the legal process. We cover how to handle a manipulative ex.
We all know working out is good for you, but it’s hard to incorporate it into your everyday life. I will show you how it isn’t as hard as you think and that it is 80% mental. I’ll give you tips for making the mental shift to just do it!
You can do anything if you put your mind to it. In this module we talk about how you can unearth the contributing factors that ended your relationship. We talk about how to get more laughter in your life to fight stress. We talk about conquering your fears and getting rid of stinkin’ thinkin’.
In this next module I give you some of my strategies for getting out from the pickle that divorce can squeeze you into financially.
What do you do if your ex moves away? Jump for joy until it’s time to exchange the kids, right? In this module it gets a little tricky, but I give you some good options for when living close to the ex isn’t possible.
Instant access into my exclusive Facebook group in the Live Well Divorce (LWD) Community where you’ll gain unlimited insight, inspiration and feedback with other members of this program. The group is very supportive of each other and when you are stuck and don’t know what to do, you can ask others in the group for advice.
While there are tons of videos on YouTube, I thought you’d get the most out of these with the How To Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache Program. I’ve done the research so you don’t have to.
Here is a collection of books I think you will enjoy with the program. I have compiled this list over the years and am always adding to it. If you hear of a good one, let me know. I’ll include it!
Here is a collection of movies I think you will enjoy with the program. I have compiled this list over the years and am always adding to it.
Here is a collection of Internet Sites on divorce recovery and building stronger relationships I think you will enjoy with the program. I have compiled this list over the years and am always adding to it.
Are you in the throws of a divorce or major breakup?
Do you feel overwhelmed, stuck, depressed, angry, hurt, and all the other emotions that go with ending a relationship?
Do you find that paid therapy only helps so much and that maybe you get more out of the advice from friends, but then sometimes it's the wrong advice?
Are you tired of missing work and having to juggle your schedule and the kids to make it to a counseling appointment?
Do you wish you had access to someone who's been right where you are, wrote a bestseller on divorce recovery, and is now offering everything she knows about moving on and dealing with this phase of your life with an upbeat outlook that will give you the life you deserve?
If you answered yes to any of these, then this might be a good class for you. I'm just sayin'.
Is Your Name Alimony Jim? Does your ex answer the phone as though you are a stranger and someone they've never heard of even though you are paying tons of alimony or child support?
Are you Stressed out Sandra? Trying to pick up the pieces of your life and getting stuck in the swirl?
Lost the life inside of you? Want to get it back, but finding it hard just to breathe in and breathe out?
Walking around broken hearted and finding it hard to move on?
Get started RIGHT NOW by choosing the plan that works best for you.
TO RECAP, HERE’S WHAT YOU WILL GET…
The FULL How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache Training Course. Priority access to all 6 Modules with downloadable videos, cheatsheets, and audio. Value – $1997
Bonus #1 – Instant and Exclusive Access to the Live Well Divorce Facebook Group where you’ll gain unlimited insight, inspiration, and feedback on your Live Well Divorce Journey from a friendly and approachable group of like minded recruits. Value – $997
Other Bonuses – You’ll get my compiled list of books, movies, videos, and Internet sites that were picked to compliment this program. Value – $197.
When you add it all up that’s a total value of $3,191…
But because I’m super excited to welcome you into the first wave of new recruits to Heartbreak Ridge and watch you get launched into the LIVE WELL Divorce lifestyle, I’m giving you the opportunity to enroll in How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache TODAY at the special promo price of just…$297
What sort of guarantee do you offer?
We offer a 30 day, TRY IT, TEST IT, APPLY IT guarantee. If you feel our product is not a good fit in the first month, just let us know and we will give your money back!
But you do have to apply the lessons and do the work.
How to Get More Out of Your Breakup than just Heartache is for those in the trenches who are committed to learning how to Live Well and enrich their lives from the lessons divorce has to teach us.
And we will be strict on this last point – you absolutely must do the work and put the strategies into action to be eligible for a refund.
There is so much transformation waiting for you on the other side of this training and since my main goal is for your happiness, I’m not afraid to dish out some tough Tomi love when it comes to holding you accountable.